WHEN A BIRD SINGS....

Like Keyshia Cole says (damn, FYI Keyshia is pregnant...lol). I wish I had to ability to just let things go...not have stuff on my head or on my heart..must be nice not to have estrogen!! "If I were a Boy" LMAO I wonder...WWJD?

NID-HCA Offices Someone said to me…”you cannot lash out on me based on your previous experiences”..Initially this statement always makes sense. Until I thought long about it… (I am totally swamped at work; however, I cannot function with an uneasy mind set…so I had to take 10 minutes to get this off my chest) How do we form conclusions about certain experiences in life without having a personal experience with it? Let’s say for example…when people say, I don’t like sushi. I’m like...”Have you tried it” and they are like “No”…well how do you know that you don’t like it. So, from our experiences we develop an understanding of the things that we like and the things that we don’t like. From our experiences, we learn how we like to be treated and how we don’t like to be treated. So just because one is not saying that “well in the past…this happens…so this is why I am like this” that does not mean that there wasn’t a certain experience that helped them get that way. C...

Baller: you're not one because you spend 50% of your check on brand name clothing Cashing out: does not mean you went silly at the bars over the weekend now you're broke on Monday Diva Status: does not mean you just got a new lace front and so call "stunnin' on you hoes" Swag: does not mean you imitate everything Kanye or Rihanna does Model Chick: you're not one because you decided to spend $210 on a 1.5 hour photo shoot to post them on FB and Myspace so ppl can comment I could go on...but then everybody would say I'm a hater..then I'll say you're correct!! LOL

So, there has been a couple of incidents that has occurred either to me or others around me that I chose to address. This may hit home for some folks also... When a person decides to step out of the relationship, you know, cheat on their spouse. Now...their partner finds out that they are cheating. Okay..now who are you more concerned about..the cheating spouse or the other "person".. I am not sure why a lot of people focus their frustration with the other "person"..well actually, I do have a theory. I believe that it is easy for us to take our frustration out on the person who are feelings are not attached with. Its harder to face the person who really hurt you. From the looks of it..it seems that females are quick to be more upset with the other woman than their man. Most girls reasoning would be "she should have respect that that's my man" or " woman to woman she knows thats wrong". Well I have a couple of problems with this... #1 M...

DON'T POST THEM IF YOU DON'T WANT INAPPROPRIATE COMMENTS!! THATS ALL!! ALSO DON'T POST SH*T THAT YOU DON'T WANT PEOPLE QUESTIONING! I DON'T GET IT! I HAD ONE PERSON SAY "GET OUT MY BUSINESS"..."B*TCH ALL YOUR BUSINESS IS ON FACEBOOK" DUH!!!

No one is there when i need for them to be there....im tired of just being "convenient" for people....when are people gonna make me an inconvenience and it be okay...i dont know if that makes sense; but it makes sense in my head FYI you cannot be in love with someone and just say it...it just doesn't make sense...how do they know? just by listening to you? And what love go to do with it anyways!!! So what!! Whats next!! We got that out the way I feel like I am pretty much wifey material...not to be cocky or anything, but I know I have major potential...25 will be hear shortly, then 30...WTF?!?! when is Prince Charming going to get here!!! I just want someone to be there when I need him to be there!! Is that too much to ask? To answer when I call? to text when I text? for me to be on his line like he's on mine!! When is it my turn? Am I even ready... Hey, Blame it on the "Pinot Grigio" If my EX never taught me anything (which he did teach me a lot though; I c...

This is the new celebrity craze!! "Biker Gloves??" Well, lets keep are street smarts with these one and not let it hit the streets!! PLEASE!!!!