WHEN A BIRD SINGS....

Baller: you're not one because you spend 50% of your check on brand name clothing Cashing out: does not mean you went silly at the bars over the weekend now you're broke on Monday Diva Status: does not mean you just got a new lace front and so call "stunnin' on you hoes" Swag: does not mean you imitate everything Kanye or Rihanna does Model Chick: you're not one because you decided to spend $210 on a 1.5 hour photo shoot to post them on FB and Myspace so ppl can comment I could go on...but then everybody would say I'm a hater..then I'll say you're correct!! LOL

So, there has been a couple of incidents that has occurred either to me or others around me that I chose to address. This may hit home for some folks also... When a person decides to step out of the relationship, you know, cheat on their spouse. Now...their partner finds out that they are cheating. Okay..now who are you more concerned about..the cheating spouse or the other "person".. I am not sure why a lot of people focus their frustration with the other "person"..well actually, I do have a theory. I believe that it is easy for us to take our frustration out on the person who are feelings are not attached with. Its harder to face the person who really hurt you. From the looks of it..it seems that females are quick to be more upset with the other woman than their man. Most girls reasoning would be "she should have respect that that's my man" or " woman to woman she knows thats wrong". Well I have a couple of problems with this... #1 M...