WHEN A BIRD SINGS....

Baller: you're not one because you spend 50% of your check on brand name clothing Cashing out: does not mean you went silly at the bars over the weekend now you're broke on Monday Diva Status: does not mean you just got a new lace front and so call "stunnin' on you hoes" Swag: does not mean you imitate everything Kanye or Rihanna does Model Chick: you're not one because you decided to spend $210 on a 1.5 hour photo shoot to post them on FB and Myspace so ppl can comment I could go on...but then everybody would say I'm a hater..then I'll say you're correct!! LOL

So, there has been a couple of incidents that has occurred either to me or others around me that I chose to address. This may hit home for some folks also... When a person decides to step out of the relationship, you know, cheat on their spouse. Now...their partner finds out that they are cheating. Okay..now who are you more concerned about..the cheating spouse or the other "person".. I am not sure why a lot of people focus their frustration with the other "person"..well actually, I do have a theory. I believe that it is easy for us to take our frustration out on the person who are feelings are not attached with. Its harder to face the person who really hurt you. From the looks of it..it seems that females are quick to be more upset with the other woman than their man. Most girls reasoning would be "she should have respect that that's my man" or " woman to woman she knows thats wrong". Well I have a couple of problems with this... #1 M...

DON'T POST THEM IF YOU DON'T WANT INAPPROPRIATE COMMENTS!! THATS ALL!! ALSO DON'T POST SH*T THAT YOU DON'T WANT PEOPLE QUESTIONING! I DON'T GET IT! I HAD ONE PERSON SAY "GET OUT MY BUSINESS"..."B*TCH ALL YOUR BUSINESS IS ON FACEBOOK" DUH!!!

No one is there when i need for them to be there....im tired of just being "convenient" for people....when are people gonna make me an inconvenience and it be okay...i dont know if that makes sense; but it makes sense in my head FYI you cannot be in love with someone and just say it...it just doesn't make sense...how do they know? just by listening to you? And what love go to do with it anyways!!! So what!! Whats next!! We got that out the way I feel like I am pretty much wifey material...not to be cocky or anything, but I know I have major potential...25 will be hear shortly, then 30...WTF?!?! when is Prince Charming going to get here!!! I just want someone to be there when I need him to be there!! Is that too much to ask? To answer when I call? to text when I text? for me to be on his line like he's on mine!! When is it my turn? Am I even ready... Hey, Blame it on the "Pinot Grigio" If my EX never taught me anything (which he did teach me a lot though; I c...

This is the new celebrity craze!! "Biker Gloves??" Well, lets keep are street smarts with these one and not let it hit the streets!! PLEASE!!!!

How do we relate to each other without fully understanding who you are? Is it possible...I'm sure because we all do it everyday!!! Can you be happy with someone else without being totally happy with who you are??

I'm not perfect, and we all know that I don't try to be. However, when it comes to my place of employment...I always strive to do my best. I like being a good worker, and having an awesome rapport with my supervisor. This is the first job that I've had to take direction...wait for a task, complete it, hand it in, get comments, revise, and blah blah blah. Now, I know I'm not in grade school...so I'm not asking for a gold star or anything. But I am human!! And minimal encouragers are great!! I cannot take just "RED INK" and "DID YOU DO THIS? DID YOU DO THAT?" all day!! It wears down on my confidence and my work doesn't get better it stays stagnate. I just want reassurance that my effort is furthering along the company's agenda... is it too much to ask? "I'm Just Sayin'"