Nice Guys Finish Last

What is this about good girls like bad guys? Or Nice guys finish last? Uhh, I think not!! I think we are attracted to who we are attracted too. Just because you are a nice guy...well that doesn't turn me off. You think I go into situations like .." yea, I'm really looking for a jerk!!" LOL Uhh, no! I can also say, I've never passed up a nice guy because he was just too nice. I'm saying, that’s absolutely ridiculous. I've passed through nice guys just as I've passed through "bad guys”. Before I wrote this, I was trying to pinpoint one reason why I’ve passed along nice guys in the past. Well, guess what! I couldn’t….there has been multiple different reasons. Here are some:

Getting to know you stage: well this can both be super fun or long and dry. I’d like to think that I don’t stay in this stage long. Well, I just move pretty fast. So if its gonna take forever for us to move out of this phase, I’m just going to get bored.

Indecisive: I need someone who is going to make some f*cking decisions. Please don’t look to me to plan everything and move things along. Take the reins, PLEASE! I’m giving them too you.

Chemistry: Nice doesn’t always translate into the bed. That’s all I'll say about that!

Lock’em down: “I’m just like a bird, I wanna fly away!”. There has been times when the nice guy comes along…just at the wrong time in my life. Maybe I’m feeling a bit more friskier than usual. So as time goes by..he gets serious, want to lock me down, and I’m just not ready for that. So, understandably so…he doesn't wait around for me to get my head together…so that becomes a missed opportunity.

Self Indulged: First of all, I love myself a lot! So I understand how that feels. But, arrogance can either turn me on or turn me off. I suppose it all depends on the package that it comes with.

Too Smart for your Own Good: Dude, the fact that you’re hella smart…that’s cool! But then what?!!

Its funnie because this is pretty different than my opinion a few years ago…well that’s what’s happen! Life…we change! Opinions change…but if you are curious of my thoughts previously, here is the link: http://whenabirdsings.blogspot.com/2010/06/good-girl-bad-guy.html

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