Why doubt ourselves

I will be the first to say that I doubt myself. It is actually something hard to admit. We would like to believe that we have so much faith in ourselves and we believe in our self more than anyone. But I've learned that more people believe in me than I sometimes believe in myself.

I am trying to understand why. Since the beginning of grad school (i know, i am only on week three) I have been questioning if this is meant for me. Asking myself "am I suppose to be here?" So I think....I think hard about where I came from, and about my accomplishments so far. So if I was to write it all down..it makes sense on paper that I am here. My rap sheet would say that this stage in my life is inevitable.

I suppose I tend to compare myself with others...which is a horrible thing to do? But when you are sitting in a classroom and you feel that everyone is competing it is hard to do so. I believe I wrote something about this before...so maybe I need to revisit it...but the question is...how do I build more confidence in myself?

WWJD??

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