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Can I come thru?

"Can I come thru?"

 I swear this line has haunted me all of 2014! And if another Negro says this to me again! "Can I come thru?" Like how old am I? Ohh, last time I checked...I was touching 30 with a yard stick! 

 In 2014, I am coming to the understanding that its no longer cool to take ladies out.  Like you meet a guy, you all have a few conversations, and then he says "Can I come thru?" Like, wtf! 

 So I can say that I am guilty on accepting this.  This "coming thru"tactic.  Well predominantly because I didn't see much about the guy that I truly wanted....maybe I just wanted something physical from him...so "coming thru" was okay.  But then what? Like its only so much "coming thru" that's keeping me entertained.

 I have been one of the women feeding into this hoax set up my men,  Wanting to convince us that they are giving us some of their time, so what do we need to complain about.  But then what else are you doing? Are you doing something to make me happy? To make me grow? To address the complex person that makes up Raven Willoughby? 

 Wait, then they get irritated because all you keep asking for is more! LOL, that's hilarious..

 "Can I come thru?" just ain't gonna cut it in 2015,,,,

 I'm just saying
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