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We share the same GENITALIA!!

Hey what is this all about...why do girls knock other girls just because? I do not understand why I have to deal with nasty attitudes and rude looks from the same sex just because. It may have a lot to do with their own insecurity. I am a very polite person to people I do not know. It saddens me when I am nice to a girl and she gets an attitude for no reason. Or when I am walking down the street and she turns her lip up at me. Or when I am at a store and they just have attitude. Now, I would hate to think that this is just a female thing. Now I do notice guys who feel the need to stare each other down when they walk by each other. I hear its some kind of ego thing, like they cannot look away because then it would mean that the other male won the "silent eye-staring contest"?

So is it an insecurity thing? Are girls really just mad because they feel the other looks better, more accomplished, etc? These are the only things that I can come up with. But its just stupid to me. Wouldn't it be better if you just showed me my props instead of hating. I know when I compliment random girls I get different reactions, sometimes good and other times they are confused. If I see a girl and I think she looks nice, then I will tell her. If I think her hair is cute, then I will tell her. Some girls look at me as if that was weird. I guess some girls are not used to other girls being nice, and that sucks because we share the same genitalia!! No need to hate you, especially if I don't know you.

This past week, I just discovered some of the nicest women in the world: STRIPPERS!! Or should I say, Dancers (to be politically correct). I went the the strip club and immediately, I walk in and the women are giving me a nice smile. When I gave them a tip, it was immediately followed by "Thank you sweetheart" and later a hug when they are finished doing their thang on the stage.

All I'm saying is....do I have to start walking around tipping you crazy ass females just to get a smile?

I'm Just Saying....

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