So, don't judge me!! Yea, I dated two boys that were cousins. It is pretty scandalous when I put it down on paper and its something that I would never do again.
Cousin #1:
I had the biggest crush on him when I was in junior high school. I would just melt when he said one word to me. However we were like 5 years apart in age, so I just knew he wasn't going to mess with a youngin. Until, one evening I was coming from Muay Thai practice (yea, I kick ass) and it was around 10p. I was waiting for the bus downtown Oakland and he walks up. He stops and speaks to me. We engage in some great dialogue and we get on the same bus!! After getting pretty close to my destination, he asked from my number. I had to tell him that at 14 I don't think my mom would let me talk to a 19 year old......so I gave him my email. After emailing and letting my mom know (she met him and liked him) we started to date. I guess once I had access to something that I had wanted so bad...the fire started to die down...I eventually told him we should just be friends....
Cousin #2:
So one day I am with Cousin #1 and we were hanging out (ya know, doing the whole friendship thing...this was at about 4 years after we stop dating) . He told me that he wanted me to roll with him to go with his cousin to the mall. I was like, its whatever. So anyways...we go to the infamous Bayfair mall. I get out and Cousin #1 introduces me to Cousin #2. So, initially I was attracted to him; however, all I'm thinking is this is Cousin #1 fam, so that's not cool. Anyways, we go into the mall. I am talking to Cousin #2 just asking some general "get to know ya" questions. As we are shopping, I can see Cousin #2 giving me the eye. SO anyways when we leave...I get in the car with Cousin #1 and the whole time we are following Cousin #2. We get to Cousin #2 house and Cousin #1 goes say bye. Cousin #1 comes back in the car and looks at me. He gets into this conversation about how Cousin #2 wants to get with me and see what's up. I was even shocked that he came at me with this. SO anyways, I asked him how did he feel about it...and he said he was cool with it. So I started to talk to Cousin #2....
The Finale
During my fling with Cousin #2...Cousin #1 would get a little jealous..He would call me saying why did I do this with Cousin #2 and didn't do it with him. But Cousin #2 would call him...uhh, kinda bragging. It was a very awkward situation that I had put myself in. It eventually dismantled; however, because of others reason. I just highly suggest.....NOT TO KEEP IT IN THE FAMILY!!
Cousin #1:
I had the biggest crush on him when I was in junior high school. I would just melt when he said one word to me. However we were like 5 years apart in age, so I just knew he wasn't going to mess with a youngin. Until, one evening I was coming from Muay Thai practice (yea, I kick ass) and it was around 10p. I was waiting for the bus downtown Oakland and he walks up. He stops and speaks to me. We engage in some great dialogue and we get on the same bus!! After getting pretty close to my destination, he asked from my number. I had to tell him that at 14 I don't think my mom would let me talk to a 19 year old......so I gave him my email. After emailing and letting my mom know (she met him and liked him) we started to date. I guess once I had access to something that I had wanted so bad...the fire started to die down...I eventually told him we should just be friends....
Cousin #2:
So one day I am with Cousin #1 and we were hanging out (ya know, doing the whole friendship thing...this was at about 4 years after we stop dating) . He told me that he wanted me to roll with him to go with his cousin to the mall. I was like, its whatever. So anyways...we go to the infamous Bayfair mall. I get out and Cousin #1 introduces me to Cousin #2. So, initially I was attracted to him; however, all I'm thinking is this is Cousin #1 fam, so that's not cool. Anyways, we go into the mall. I am talking to Cousin #2 just asking some general "get to know ya" questions. As we are shopping, I can see Cousin #2 giving me the eye. SO anyways when we leave...I get in the car with Cousin #1 and the whole time we are following Cousin #2. We get to Cousin #2 house and Cousin #1 goes say bye. Cousin #1 comes back in the car and looks at me. He gets into this conversation about how Cousin #2 wants to get with me and see what's up. I was even shocked that he came at me with this. SO anyways, I asked him how did he feel about it...and he said he was cool with it. So I started to talk to Cousin #2....
The Finale
During my fling with Cousin #2...Cousin #1 would get a little jealous..He would call me saying why did I do this with Cousin #2 and didn't do it with him. But Cousin #2 would call him...uhh, kinda bragging. It was a very awkward situation that I had put myself in. It eventually dismantled; however, because of others reason. I just highly suggest.....NOT TO KEEP IT IN THE FAMILY!!
LOL. This is hella funny Raven. I'm glad that you learned a valuable lesson. (I'm gonna post this under anonymous bz I don't feel like setting up an account).
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